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082			_a649.1 _bCLİ.P 1990
100	1		_aCline, Foster W. _927481
245	1	0	_aParenting with love and logic : teaching children responsibility / _cFoster W. Cline, Jim Fay.
260			_aColorado : _bPinon Press, _c1990. _e _f _g
300			_a229 sayfa ; _c24 cm.
520			_aFor hundreds of years, rookie parents learned the fine points of child rearing by example: They took the techniques their parents had used on them and applied them to their own children. Today this approach is more apt to bomb than boom. Many of us, when we meet failure in parenting, throw up our hands in frustration and say, “I can’t understand it. It worked for my dad!” Yes, it did. But things have changed. The human rights revolution, the communication explosion, the Internet, cell phones, changes in the nuclear family — these and many other factors have radically changed how our children view life. Kids are forced to grow up quicker these days, so they need to learn sooner how to cope with the tremendous challenges and pressures of contemporary life. The impact of rising divorce rates, single parents raising kids, blended families, and other changes in the family has been dramatic. Parents must learn to use different techniques with kids who live in today’s complex, rapidly changing world. That’s where Parenting with Love and Logic comes in. Why the terms love and logic? Effective parenting centers around love: love that is not permissive, love that doesn’t tolerate disrespect, but also love that is powerful enough to allow kids to make mistakes and permit them to live with the consequences of those mistakes. Most mistakes do have logical consequences. And those consequences, when accompanied by empathy — our compassionate understanding of the child’s disappointment, frustration, and pain — hit home with mind-changing power. This book is written in two parts. In the first, we will lay out our concepts on parenting in general terms, centering on building selfconcept, separating problems, neutralizing anger and arguments, using thinking words and enforceable statements, offering choices, and locking in our empathy before our kids face the consequences of their mistakes. These are the building blocks of effective parenting. Part 1 also contains extra tidbits of information — “Love and Logic Tips” — which add flesh to the bone of many Love and Logic principles.
650		0	_aEv ekonomisi ve aile yaşamı
650		0	_aÇocuk yetiştirme
700	1		_aFay, Jim _eyazar
700	1		_aCline, Foster W. _eyazar
900			_aHacer Pergel _bMehmet Faruk Akgül
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